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I just wanted to give my readers an update on a business I am partnering with that I'm really excited about and fully endorse. String of Pearls is a self-empowerment team headed up by three amazing... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websit... If you follow my writings, you probably know by now that I don't take the lust topic lightly. Having gone through a failed first marriage as a result of lust, the only option to stop the cycle was... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website...
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We often spend so much time "working out our salvation" to keep the commandments that we tend to ignore that God commands other things, like certain emotions. Self-control, for example, is about as... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my webs... The single most important thing I have ever learned toward becoming a real and authentic person came from having dated my ex-wife. During that time, I lost myself in her -- my values, my beliefs,... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websi...
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"The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour." - Japanese Proverb Pretty hard-hitting, isn't it? Your integrity is foundational to your reputation, your... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website fo... Sex is often an uncomfortable and awkward topic of discussion to talk about, especially in church circles. Yet God designed it for us to enjoy it thoroughly; it's a pleasurable act -- not something... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websit... Lets start with the million dollar question: Why do so many married couples lose the mojo, the spark, the spice in their sex lives after a few years? And before you mutter to yourself, "Well,... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website for ... Have you ever been so afraid of failing at something that you decided not to try it at all? Or maybe that same fear undermined your own efforts to avoid the possibility of a bigger failure? I... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website... Like all skills, interviewing well takes practice. It also helps to recognise that interviewing is a two way process. Often people assume that it’s all about being interviewed by a potential employer to assess suitability as an employee. However, it’s … Continue reading In my practice as a Faith Coach, I am frequently touched by the number of men who have a sincere desire to live and lead more like Christ. Ironically, I also find a passive mentality in today's... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websit... In the world of addiction and recovery, people ravaged by drugs and alcohol understand the consequences of their decisions after having hit bottom, and the steps they now need to take to stay sober... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websit... Read Part 2. A question that has come up in the past about authenticity is this: Since you have several roles to play in life (roles at work, home, with friends, etc.), do you have to act the same... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my webs... Read Part 1. Continuing on, what is authenticity? There are as many different definitions of authenticity as there are life coaches. However, a common definition I personally like is that... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website f... I remember my dating years as a twentysomething. It was a time when the motto "image is everything" dictated my actions. I had a well inflated opinion of myself, a feeling that came from a false... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website... Lent, in the Christian calendar is marked by prayer, penance, repentance, charity and self-denial, for forty days leading to up Easter. It is usually summed up in the phrase ‘giving up something for Lent’,  and is often seen as a … Continue reading So many of us spend great amounts of time and energy developing skills like time management, public speaking, and leadership skills to be successful on the job. But what about taking time to... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website for... I was shocked to see a post on The British Psychological Society‘s Research Digest Blog Post and as a member I have complained. The post claims to offer ‘evidence-based’ instructions, but appears more as a list of sexist, blokey tips … Continue reading Russian heavyweight weight lifter Leonid Taranenko once held the world record for free-lifting 499 ½ lbs. He had tried on several occasions to break his own record by lifting 500 lbs. Each attempt... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websit... NO. Ever met a Legalist? Perhaps in church, work or at a social function, you’ll find that The Legalist personality is very similar to its close cousin, The Perfectionist. While the Perfectionist likes... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my webs... For many people the words ‘critical’ and ‘criticism’ have negative connotations. Of course it’s not helped by the impression many people have of professional critics who spend their lives reviewing the accomplishments of others. Tales are told of critics who … Continue reading Start the series (you'll need it if you really want this plan to work!). Click here for Step 6. Step #7 (Final): Create accountability for your progress toward your goal. Perhaps the most... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websi... Start the series (you'll need it if you really want this plan to work!). Click here for Step 5. Step #6: Define your goals in terms of steps. Unlike dreams, whose outcomes we pretend... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websit... Has your resolve has already weakened and have resolutions already been abandoned, or  are about to be? Well, take the opportunity of the new lunar year (Chinese New Year) to renew your vows. The first day of January is always brimming with … Continue reading At times in our lives were are faced with a heap of tasks that seems insurmountable. It’s one big amorphous blob of potential misery with not enough hours in the day to tackle it. Invariably this seemingly unmanageable blob of perceived misery is usually made … Continue reading